More than fingers
Now that you are comfortable with fingers, its time to move on
to something a bit more realistic. A good dildo is excellent to practice with. You can
obtain one at a love shop or order from many places on the internet. I would recommend one
made of plastic rather than latex. Latex dildos are difficult to clean and have soft pores
that bacteria could be harbored in. Dont use anything with sharp edges or that can
On your own try inserting the dildo into your ass gradually, making
sure that it is well lubricated. Try pushing it in and out of your anus while you
masturbate yourself with the other hand. I have found that if Im already excited
from masturbating it is much simpler to push the dildo further into my anus.
From this point you can move on and involve your partner in the
exploration process. Make sure that he is aware that you are setting the pace and not to
rush the whole process. He will be greatly rewarded by the results of patience when he
finally gets to experience your ass, especially if this will be a first for you.