There are a couple of ways to get your
partner involved in the exploration of your ass. They are postillioning and
Postillioning is the insertion of fingers
into the anus and may involve massaging it and the rectum. At its most extreme you
can end up with anal fisting, but thats a whole topic on its own.
The insertion of your partners fingers
into your anus is a great lead up to the ultimate of anal sex or it can even be a pleasant
enhancement to regular intercourse. This allows your partner to become familiar with how
you may react during anal sex. It gives him a chance to explore your body with you.
Normally, I find that the index or middle
fingers work the best, being a little longer than the others and stronger as well.
Dont forget the lube! Run your fingers over the anal opening, kneading and pressing
against it. You can use a circular motion if you like. Its just like giving a
massage, you are helping the area around the anus to relax. Make the insertion by pressing
gently and firmly inwards, wiggling the tip of your finger as necessary. At this point if
your partner is comfortable and relaxed the finger should slide in fairly easily. On the
other hand, if the ass is tense then your finger will not make any headway at all. You and
your partner will have to decide at this point whether or not to continue or to perhaps
leave it and come back to it another time.
Once your finger is past the anal
opening you will feel the thick, strong, muscular ring which is the anus and beyond it,
the soft sides of the rectum. You will need to keep at least your fingertip beyond the
anus or the contraction of the muscle could just force the finger right out. When your
finger is inside explore a bit, pushing the finger as far in as it will go, flicking back
A great way to enhance this exploration
would be to suck on your partners clit or stick your other fingers in her pussy. I
have found that this combination makes for some pretty powerful orgasms. There is nothing
better than having his mouth wrapped around my clit and fingers wiggling in my ass.
Its a great feeling.