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Art of Cunnilingus
This tutorial will take you through the art of cunnilingus from start to finish. What
I’m hoping to do is to give you information that will improve your oral sex
techniques, give you some new ideas or confirm what you already know. Keep in mind that
these are my personal opinions and things that work for me. I personally love nothing more
than having someone lapping at my pussy, teasing and taunting and finally bringing me to
orgasm.
There are many men out there who love nothing
better than to bury their faces in woman’s pussy to lick and explore to their hearts
content. On the other hand there are many men who want no part of this. At the same time
there are woman who do not enjoy having their pussy licked. These are things that you need
to know ahead of time before you get into a lovemaking session that is destined to go
wrong because you don’t know enough about each other. It’s becoming much easier
to communicate with another on what you like – sex isn’t the taboo it once was.
I’m also of the opinion that if the guy wants me to suck his cock on a regular basis
then he’d better be prepared to put in equal time on my pussy! This might sound a
little selfish to you because pleasing my partner is supposed to turn me on. It does, but
at the same time there has to be the same consideration coming back the other direction.
If all my partner ever wants is to have me suck on his cock and do nothing in return
it’s not going to be long before I goes on strike and won’t suck my
partner’s cock either unless I’m really in the mood for it.
If you have a concern with smell or
taste of your woman then perhaps you might want to start your session off with a shower
and soap each other down and have fun. Perhaps you might even incorporate shaving of both
partner's genitals into this scenario.
I personally like to be touched and teased
and warmed up before my partner just latches on to my clitoris and starts mauling it to
death. That can be a real shock to the system and cause your partner to throw you across
the room even though you had the best of intentions.
A good way to get started is to start by
kissing your partner. Remember the day when you were only dating and that’s all you
did was sit and neck? Why not revisit those memories? It’s a great way to start the
sexual juices flowing. While you and your partner are exchanging all these wonderful
kisses run your hands over your partners body skimming across all her erogenous zones,
arousing her body.
Gradually move your fingers to run over the
inside of her thighs and then brush lightly over her pubic mound making sure not to touch
the clitoris or the inner labia. This is a good time to start working your way down over
her breasts and stomach heading towards her most private areas. Now how long you want to
tease is entirely up to you, although if you make her wait for too long you might find
that her hands come up and grab you by the ears and push your face deep into her pussy.
That would be a good indication that she wants you to step up the pace a little.
I can’t stress enough that there is no right or wrong
way to provide your partner with good cunnilingus. It will vary from woman to woman on
what they enjoy and how much pressure they like. The best bet is to start by communicating
to find out what she likes and then as you try different techniques or strokes to make a
note of which ones make her moan or get a reaction good or bad. From there you can then
refine and improve your technique. |
